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Comments from an adoptive family
In 2001, we decided to begin building our family through International
Adoption. We contacted several Adoption Practitioners, but were
most impressed with the information that Sandra Webb offered and
the time that she took with us even before we hired her. It
was very clear to us that she was knowledgeable and would work
with our best interests in mind, and so our relationship with Sandra
began.
The homestudy process seemed ominous at first glance. We quickly
realized though, that Sandra's main goal was not to judge us,
rather to help us explore adoption in further detail. Sandra gently
guided us as we learned about ourselves and about adoption issues.
By the end of our first homestudy, she had become a trusted friend
and we felt completely comfortable discussing any issue with her.
Throughout each of our adoption experiences we have appreciated
Sandra's hard work (and extensive training), as we have always
been well prepared for issues that arise. Not only has Sandra been
there for us as an advisor, but she has also become a member of
our family. During difficult times she has offered encouragement
and morale support. During times of joy she has celebrated with
us.
Sandra has always shown a great degree of dedication to the families
she helps to create. She is passionate about children and committed
to making a difference in their lives. Three years and two adoptions
later, we feel blessed that we have had Sandra with us on
this journey.
Comments regarding Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy
As the stay-at-home father of two adoptive children, aged 6 and
7, I found it essential to select the right therapy for them. The
children had severe attachment issues and we wanted a therapist
who could include us in the therapy, so that we could help. Dyadic
developmental therapy met these requirements.
Since at least one of us was always present at the therapy sessions,
acting as a co-therapist, my wife and I learned from the therapist
directly. We learned some key attitudes that help children with
attachment issues. Consequently, we were able to apply the therapy
daily and continuously at home, not just in a one- or two-hour
session with the therapist. As a result, our children are now thriving
and we avoided the parental burnout that had been making the situation
unmanageable. I feel that conventional therapy, excluding us from
the sessions, would never have worked out so well.
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